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to Our Family Wizard Messages from Aggressive Coparents
Gentler Coparent Response
I understand that you’re upset and I’m sorry to hear that you feel this way. My intention is not to cause any distress but to ensure that we are effectively co-parenting. I believe it’s important for us to communicate about matters concerning our daughter.
Regarding the dog-sitting and the horn incident, I apologize if my actions seemed inconsiderate. I assure you that was not my intention. I will make sure to discuss such matters with you in the future to avoid any misunderstandings.
Let’s focus on what’s best for [DAUGHTER] and move forward. I’m open to discussing any concerns you may have.
Difficult Coparent Message
Coparent Makes Accusation of Theft
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Gentler Coparent Response
Coparent Refuses To Adhere to Possession Schedule
“I received your communication that you refuse to address this in a co-parenting manner and again you made that clear. The lack of co-parenting is largely what makes Thursday’s so difficult on the children in the first place (among other reasons) and just because you don’t won’t to give up your free time on Thursday’s does not make it the right thing for the kids. . But I do appreciate the various clear negative co-parenting responses in this email so I understand that I will need to address this in another manner in the near future. Thanks”
Gentler Coparent Response
Dear [Co-parent’s Name],
I hope this message finds you well. I understand your concerns and I appreciate your perspective. However, I would like to clarify a few things.
Our agreed-upon schedule, as outlined in our Parenting Plan, is designed to provide consistency and stability for our children. It is not about my personal convenience or free time, but about what is best for our children. I believe that adhering to this schedule is in their best interest.
I am committed to co-parenting in a manner that prioritizes our children’s well-being. I am open to discussing any specific issues you believe are negatively impacting them, provided these discussions are constructive and focused on their needs.
Regarding your mention of addressing this matter in another manner, I would like to remind us both that our Parenting Plan is a legal agreement. Any changes to this agreement should be made through the appropriate legal channels, and not unilaterally.
I am always open to dialogue and negotiation, but it is important that we both respect the legal agreements we have in place. This is not only for our benefit, but most importantly, for the benefit of our children.
Thank you for your understanding.
Best,
[Your Name]
Coparent Rants About Extra-Curriculars
Gentler Coparent Response
Dear [Co-parent’s Name],
I understand your concerns and I appreciate your commitment to our child’s well-being. However, I must clarify a few points in your message.
Firstly, I did inform you about ten’s band trip to Six Flags. The information was shared via our agreed-upon communication channel, Our Family Wizard, as soon as I was aware of it. I believe in keeping you informed about all significant events in [DAUGHTER’S] life, and this was no exception.
Secondly, I did not sign the waiver or make any payments without your knowledge. As co-parents, we both have the responsibility to make decisions that are in the best interest of our child. I believed that this trip would be a valuable experience for [DAUGHTER], and I acted accordingly.
Regarding the soccer game, I was indeed aware of it, and I understand its importance. However, I also believe that [DAUGHTER] should have the opportunity to participate in a variety of activities, including her band trip. Balancing these activities is a challenge we both face as co-parents.
I agree that proactive co-parenting is essential for our child’s well-being. I strive to do this every day, and I believe that we can work together to ensure that [DAUGHTER] does not feel the impact of any conflicts between us.
I want to remind you that our communication, especially on platforms like Our Family Wizard, is not the place for personal accusations or narratives. Our focus should always be on ****** and her needs. I am aware of the potential legal implications of our communication, and I am committed to maintaining a respectful and productive dialogue.
I hope we can continue to work together in the best interest of our child. Let’s focus on finding solutions rather than assigning blame. I am open to discussing any concerns you may have and working towards a resolution.
Best,
[Your Name]
Coparent Rants and Accuses
Gentler Coparent Response
Dear [Co-parent’s Name],
I appreciate your concern and understand the importance of clear and timely communication, especially when it comes to our children’s schedules. I want to assure you that my intention was never to disrupt your plans or put [DAUGHTER] in an uncomfortable position.
The event in question ran longer than expected, which was unforeseen and out of my control. I understand that this caused inconvenience and I apologize for any misunderstanding. In the future, I will make an effort to communicate any changes as soon as I become aware of them.
However, I would like to clarify that it was not my intention to withhold information or take advantage of your generosity. I believe that we both want what’s best for our children and that includes a harmonious co-parenting relationship.
I also want to address your final comment. I understand that we may have different perspectives on certain situations, but I believe it’s important to maintain a respectful tone in our communication. Sarcastic remarks do not contribute to a productive conversation and can create unnecessary tension.
Let’s continue to work together for the best interest of our children. I am committed to improving our communication and co-parenting relationship.
Best,
[Your Name]
